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Clarity tools

Guided experiences to examine what you're thinking, feeling, and deciding. Each tool is based on a real thinking framework - and adapted for the way life actually happens.

Decide

For when you have too many options and not enough clarity.

01

Fear Setting

Name what you're avoiding. Separate real fear from inflated fear. Discover the cost of not acting.

Based on Fear Setting - Tim Ferriss ~15 min
02

3 Plausible Futures

Imagine three honest versions of your next chapter. Not to choose in your head - to feel which one calls for a test.

Based on Odyssey Plan - Design Your Life ~20 min
03

Hell Yes or No

Separate a true yes from an "I think I should." To stop saying yes out of obligation.

Based on Hell Yes or No - Derek Sivers ~10 min

Listen to yourself

For when you feel something but can't name it.

04

Inner Compass

Use your body as a guide. Discover if what you feel is healthy fear or real misalignment.

Based on Martha Beck - Finding Your Own North Star ~12 min
05

Energy Audit

Map what drains you and what restores you. To reorganize life around what truly matters.

May curation ~15 min

Communicate

For when you need to say something hard without attacking or shutting down.

06

What I Really Want to Say

Translate judgment, anger, and confusion into something clear and honest. For conversations you've been putting off.

Based on Nonviolent Communication - Marshall Rosenberg ~15 min
07

Future Prototypes

Instead of deciding everything in your head, design 3 small tests. To experience a life before quitting everything.

Based on Design Your Life ~15 min

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